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NEW Writers. Do you find it difficult to give your Characters a name? It’s like finding a babies name. Some help from my experiences writing.

Posted in Adult, Author, Book, Creative, Inspiration, Masseuse Madam, Memoir, Novel, writer, Writing with tags , , , , , , , , , on May 28, 2015 by A. J. Lee

Naming characters is a challenge. I Gave this plenty of time and thought. I have changed three of my characters names in my memoir a few times. (I could NOT use their real name or WORKING name) It took a while until the name was right for that character as I actually knew them.

I made a list of male and female names. It’s an endless task.  Quite fun though listing so many names.


Character names In YOUR novel, depends of course on your era.. 1920’s names would not fit in 2015 ect.

Your character name is important.
Use different first initials. Not to confuse the reader.
Avoid middle names or initials.
A character you may wish to draw attention to why not use alliterative initials. B.B. G.G. ect..

To find a character name.  You could write a some first  names and surnames on pieces of paper. Jumble  them up pull them out randomly.  See what they look like in front of you. (Your own name generator) 🙂
Names you may never have thought of suddenly look good.

I hope this is helpful,
Happy writing to you all,
AJ 🙂


Bank Holiday today in UK. I am taking a break from writing… Or am I?

Posted in Author, Book, Masseuse Madam, Memoir, Novel, People, writer, Writing with tags , , , , , , , , on May 25, 2015 by A. J. Lee

I am going to my  daughters today.   A walk to her home is only  about five minutes away.  Some fresh air and of course the exercise will do me good.  It’s a nice sunny  day.  Makes a change. Bank Holidays, it usually rains.  I do see some rain clouds lurking.

We decided we would do some gardening.  I wonder if I  will  get any ideas come to mind in the middle of  planting the petunias and geraniums.   Where shall I keep  my notepad?  It’s bound to happen.  I can’t think.. . ‘Oh!. I will  write it later.’ Can I ? It will be forgotten.

Have a lovely day all,

and Happy writing.

AJ 🙂


Posted in Adult, Author, Book, Masseuse Madam, Memoir, Novel, People, writer, Writing with tags , , , , , , , , , on May 24, 2015 by A. J. Lee

Below is a guide of things to consider when making a character profile. I did mention before how important and helpful this can be. (Even though in my memoir my characters are real) I still did a character profile. It jogged my memory. As I prepared each one, I remembered things about them I’d forgotten.
Here is my list.      An aid to bring your character to life.
Name:                                         Nickname
Age:                              (Birthday, year)
Any Physical faults. Scars, Tattoos, Birthmarks.
Description: Eye colour, Do they change with their mood?
Hair: Colour,  Is it long, short. A special style. Unwashed, Always looked uncombed.
Dress style:
Relationship status:
Special skills:      ie. if a Vampire what are they?
Natural talents:
Thinks and feels. (Temper, calm and relaxed)
Fears, Strengths, Weaknesses.
Good qualities:
Bad habits. ie. Bite nails
Supernatural powers
General background.

This does depend on what world your character belongs in.

An important thing about this character. Will the readers like of dislike this character.

I hope this is a help to you.
Happy writing,
AJ 🙂

It’s now 6am. I was awake at 4am. The writing bug got me. I could not sleep. I tried. BUT when ideas come to mind. YOU HAVE to write it down.

Posted in Adult, Author, Book, Lost, Masseuse Madam, Memoir, Novel, writer, Writing with tags , , , , , , , , , on May 23, 2015 by A. J. Lee

It happens a lot.  I awake at some silly time in the morning.   My  mind is full of things I  must put  down on paper.  I will  look at it again later.  See the errors, make the corrections.  Then type it..  Yes.. I had a good flow today.

I will also update the blog on CoCo’s later today.  I also realised I hadn’t written  in the ABOUT section here.  I have now 🙂

I am going to my bed now.  I hope I  can sleep for a while.  No more ideas running through my head.

I hope you all have a great weekend.

Happy writing,

AJ 🙂


Posted in Adult, Author, Book, Masseuse Madam, Memoir, Novel, writer, Writing with tags , , , , , , , on May 16, 2015 by A. J. Lee

It’s happened to me.

The past three days I had a rush of inspiration. I had to put pen to paper. Noting everything down as it came to mind.

Now my ideas and thoughts are referenced. I have to leave it for a while… Take a break.

As I stood from my chair and stretched, I saw the spiders  in their many cobwebs… they look up at me aghast, as I came toward them wielding my  feather duster… Time to clean. Now their homes will be gone … until my next writing marathon.
I have to cook a decent meal. Yes, I realise I  am very  hungry. Not grab another snack, as I have for the past  few days.

Once fed and watered.  I’ll  be ready and fresh in my mind to re read my work. Make the alterations and amendments. A busy few days. That hasn’t happened for a while.

How many have had that happen? Nothing else matters, you have to write it down or it will be gone. You can’t say ‘Oh I’ll write that later.’ It doesn’t come back.

Have a nice weekend all,
and happy writing.



Posted in Adult, Adult content, Author, Book, Masseuse Madam, Memoir, Novel, Special request, writer, Writing with tags , , , , , , , , , on May 14, 2015 by A. J. Lee


In the 1980’s and 90’s I worked as a Masseuse. I later became a Madam.

When working in the room we had a menu. This listed different services we could do. SEX was NOT on the list. (It was instant dismissal if a girl did this service and caught)
The Owner of a Massage Parlour, could have the place closed if Sex was a service on their premises.

Why did they visit? Sexual services yes… BUT many other reasons too.

Companionship … Some are lonely. Nobody to talk to. They want a chat and maybe a cuddle. Nothing else.

The guy too  shy …Can’t talk to girls… Brave.. visit a Massage parlour. We are friendly…. Once they get over the shaking and stutters. They become regular callers until they are confident. Leave us. Job well done.

A Masseuse – not a Mistress… They have a regular masseuse, not classed as having an affair. Cheaper and no hassle. (Some have the same regular masseuse for many years.)

Some have ….A Sauna and a massage only NO additional services. Those were called straights.  (Not good to get one of those)  We earned no  extra money.
There are a lot of guys who have Secret Fantasies and scenarios they like us to act out with them. Some give us written instructions.  Things they wouldn’t ask the wife, partner or girlfriend to do.

These  are Cross Dressers, TV’s, Spankings, Bondage, Humiliation. Plus the VERY unusual requests. We do the scenarios and requests in a professional manner. We become good actors.

There are way too many to mention in detail some are scary some hilarious encounters..  (I have a lot in detail my first book.)

I will briefly mention one unusual request that comes to mind this was the Bun Man. (We do give our funny Nick names to the punters who  visit regularly.)
He liked the girl to stand Naked in front of a polythene covered wall in the room. He brought with him a dozen Dairy Cream and Jam buns. These he would through at the girl, once it hit her she had to rub the cream bun over her body. He used eleven. Bun number twelve was used for his relief. He left a Happy Man. We had a lot to clean up.

So you can see there is a lot more to being a masseuse.
It’s NOT all sex and go.

New writers – Are you having a moment you can’t get started. Let your mind wonder, I will give you something to think about. See where it takes you. Happy writing

Posted in Adult, Author, Book, Masseuse Madam, Memoir, Novel, Special request, writer, Writing with tags , , , , , , , , , , on May 11, 2015 by A. J. Lee

Write a little or a lot.  Just  keep writing.   A scenario for you.   You have gone for your daily walk.   Heavy rain begins, you take shelter.  You hear a loud crashing sound.  What was it ?

Another way to  get you writing.  Tear up  pieces of paper. About twenty will work.  Write a single word.   Tree, Car, Walk, Sad, Happy, Lost, Accident,Vampire.  What ever comes to mind.    Take out six. See what  you  get then write something involving those words.

Happy writing,